Running Your Own Race and Focusing On Your Inner Space

Life lessons through sports.

3.13.23 | by Coach Mike Deegan


Shane Battier vs. Elton Brand: Who did it best?

Shane Battier

  • Played all 4 college seasons
  • #6 pick overall
  • 13-year NBA career, earning $56,569,622
  • Won each an NCAA Championship and NBA Championship

Elton Brand

  • Left after 2 college seasons
  • #1 pick overall
  • 17-year NBA career, earning $169,229,324
  • Never won an NCAA or NBA Championship

Comparison is the thief of joy.

To compare these two stud athletes is ridiculous and silly. They were both incredible basketball players. Oftentimes, we get so caught up in what other people are doing. Why waste the time and energy?

This mindset limits us in many ways, and it robs us of happiness.

How to stop comparing and start competing | Brett Ledbetter | TEDxGatewayArch

How to run your own race

Coach K is a master of educating others on how to run their own race. This is especially helpful in the highly competitive world of college basketball. Here’s how he puts it:

We tell each player that comes in…each of you run your own race, and collectively we run a team race. If Shane Battier was running Elton Brand’s race, he would have been disappointed. Kids come along differently: some faster then stop; some slower then fast; some fast and never stop. Don’t gauge yourself on how someone else is doing. Gauge yourself on how you are doing.


Focus on your inner space

Outer space

Outer space includes those things outside of your control. Playing time, what other say and think of you, friends, family, etc.

Inner space

Inner space includes those things inside of your control. Effort, attitude, work-ethic, coach-ability, etc.

Focusing on the outer space is a fool’s errand. Instead, focus on the inputs that you do control. Your inner space. Shane Battier is a prime example that we can all look up to.


Action Step

What is something right now that has been affecting you negatively or that causes you worry? 

Write down the portion of the issue that’s in your control. Everything is outside of your control.


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