New beginnings, handling failure, and controlling the controllable

Life lessons through sports.
2.20.23 | by Coach Mike Deegan


The Opener

You look forward to it like a birthday party when you’re a kid.  You think something wonderful is going to happen.”

Joe Dimaggio

Friday marks my 20th opening day as collegiate baseball coach. There’s something special about the opener.  What does it mean to me? 

It’s a fresh beginning layered with hope and aspiration. 

It’s a reminder of how lucky I am to get to do something I love.  

There’s also the uncertainty. Will we ever get a hit? Score a run? Win a game?

There’s the human side – disgruntled players, parents, faculty, and fans. It won’t be all wins and smiles.  

Is it possible to approach your week like “Joltin” Joe on opening day?


The Set-up

The Philadelphia Eagles were so close to being Super Bowl champions. 

A controversial holding call sealed their fate against the Kansas City Chiefs.  The players and coaches’ response after the game showcased the culture and character of the organization.  While most people would blame and complain, they didn’t.  

“I’m never going to be someone who puts blame or anything on officials”. – Jason Kelce

“I’m big on self reflection and considering the things I could have done better.” Jalen Hurts

“It was a hold. So they called it”- James Bradbury

“I know it always appears that it’s one call that (decides the game).  It’s not what it is. Today they were better than we were”- Head Coach Nick Sirianni.

Pros lean into the things they can control: effort, energy, focus, work capacity, diet, and training. Amateurs dwell on things out of their control: weather, referees, field conditions and coaches’ decisions.

Can you improve your approach in times of adversity?


The Closer

In anticipation of opening weekend, here’s our “hype video”.

Put some eye black on, pound your mitt, throw in a wad of big league chew, have a game of catch and go dominate the week.


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